Saturday, April 15, 2017

Week 59 - Who is right and who is not?

The well wishers of Dev will argue in favor of him and those that like Sonakshi will argue for her. But whoever they talk in favor of, those who really care for either Dev or Sona, will only root for them to somehow come to terms..because the people that truly understand Dev and Sona will know that the two love each other and care for each other very much.💔

Bijoy's case of high blood pressure opened the week's door for us. The doctor's verdict on further observation increased the blood pressure of the Bose folks and us! Knowing the bond between Bijoy and Sonakshi, I can understand that she was worried more. But I did not understand what Dev's fault was... Even if Dev tried to stop Bijoy, how did Sonakshi expect Bijoy to listen to Dev? Well.. what followed next was a series of back to back lecture on how Dev was selfish and how he never cared about anyone else and how he is so unfit to be called a Superman and how fit Bijoy is for that title. And I listened quietly like Dev... Only difference between me and Dev was that Dev shed a tear or two. But I just kept looking at Sonakshi with a big exclamation mark on my face... "Really??!!"😲 😡

When we are impulsive we say many things.. Retrospectively, we may repent. But there is no use. A word said is like an arrow shot from a bow.. It cannot be called back and it will reach where it was aimed at.  It does not matter how sorry we feel later on.. words hurt a lot, especially when it is said by someone who has once made you feel very special...😢😢

What Dev brought up from the past was an apt situation to compare with the current scenario.  When Ishwari dared to give up her life because of his relationship with Sona, he did not hesitate even a moment to ask her to go away. Who can understand it better than Dev that words said impulsively don't mean anything? And Dev was right that these two have always been very impulsive in blaming each other..and expecting each other to constantly prove their sincerity.. and not as quick or as smart in understanding each other. 😢😢

Was Dev wrong in not making sure that Bijoy was safe enough? May be... because, he should have known that Bijoy was very dear to Sonakshi and that he was quite old to handle so much scotch at once!
Was Sonakshi wrong in blaming Dev for it? May be.. because, she should have trusted Dev. She should trusted him that he would have tried..

The whole week had many such situations, when they blamed each other and later quietly thought about the other person..As viewers, we all got a special pass to get into the hearts of these two characters which is now completely shut down for the outside world 😊

I am very glad that a girl like Rounita is entering the Bose family. I hope her mother keeps her insecurities away from Rounita. Because Rounita is the only person that has the potential to get into Sonakshi's heart to get the true emotions out.. It was good to see Sona and Dev talk to Rounita and Saurabh about the process of getting into a wedlock..💑

Dev is sooo wise and knows all about relationships, but why was he never able to save his own relationship with Sona? What went wrong? Will Sonakshi and Dev ever be able to forgive each other? Perfect questions asked by the bride and the groom..  My answer to Rounita and Saurabh - Ofcourse they will be together soon.. Infact they are already together. They just need some fine tuning.. its just a matter of time... 💞💞

Saurabh and Rounita's wedding brought back such lovely memories to not just DevAkshi, but all of their fans as well.  Inspite of all the tension that prevailed during the DevAkshi wedding, one cannot deny the abundant love between Dev and Sona at that time, which was filling the air with its beautiful  fragrance..and how the two families tried to keep aside all their differences, so that this love can blossom.. It was only natural for Dev and Sona to think about their wedding at this time.😒😒

Once again, the couple shared the right emotions at the right time.. Yes, they made their relationship a challenge and test in which they failed miserably. But now its a matter of "their" child Suhana and they will not and cannot afford to fail.  Dev and Sona are extremely responsible parents, which is why they are able to acknowledge their mistakes that are now beyond any redemptions because of the pain they have caused for each other. 😒😒

Like I always say - as husband and wife we have all the right to do whatever we want with our life, but as parents we don't have any right to break our relationships. Because it really involves the child's future. Whatever it takes, we have to make the relationship work. The young fans may or may not agree with me on this, but this is the fact. Honestly speaking, any couple who are now parents have to make tons of adjustments to make the relationship work. There is no right or wrong person... One day, a dad has to give up, so that the mom can feel the importance of her presence in the family. And one day, the mom has to give up, so that the dad can take charge..Its a cycle and over time, I swear, it will work for all families, however crazy they are!! My happiness knows absolutely no limits to see that the story is revolving around such responsible parents!

Well, in our story, it was mom's way for the last one week. And now, after the Bose wedding, its dad Dev's way!!  Midnight?? Really Dev - your craziness has not changed even a bit. But in a way, it worked. Because, it made it easy for Bijoy 😊

But before I wrap up the Bose family stay - I must mention that Bijoy's underplayed emotions after the hospital visit was good to see, rather a big relief to see 😊😊 I must also thank Asha who helped Dev to be his sane self in the Bose house. She was able to get into his heart more than a few times. In the last seven years, it was probably only to Asha that he openly accepted his concern for Sonakshi.❤️❤️ Bye Bye Bose family. See you back in seven days!

The Dixit mansion had no charm without Suhana's dadi.. The sleepy head GKB is no match for Ishwari's charm. Alright.. I can already hear your grudge.. relax.. I didn't say Ishwari was a good person..😬😬

As Sonakshi stepped into the house, I was also pretty much playing back the same scenes in my mind.. Obviously, there is going to be so many memories of DevAkshi attached to the Dixit home. Every brick of the house will have something to tell her. I was glad to see that the first thing she noticed there was the jhoola 😊 There are going to be many many memories in this place for Sonakshi, apart from the Jhoola and the ice water..seven years can change everything... but memories remain the same, especially if they are wonderful like Dev and Sona's..💏

I am not surprised that GKB and Vicky have not changed even a bit in seven years. Some people are born evil and will remain so, until they are destined to be. They had the same grudge or even more for Sonakshi !! And this time, Sonakshi does not need to show any regard or respect for them! I would just say that Sonakshi should take a free hit at these two and give them back royally for all the trash they throw at her. It was a good start Sona - well done!! The choti mirchi Suhana is also quite capable of handling GKB and I would love to see some hilarious encounters between these two 😉🤓

It was sad to see Suhana get sick with chicken pox.  Dev was waiting to spend his time with his daughter and this was so very unexpected. But with kids, you almost  never know when they will fall sick and when you need to change your plans!!

In a way, Ishwari's absence was good... Because, her involvement might suffocate Sonakshi and Suhana the very first day!!

As much as Ishwari's absence is appreciated, Jatin's presence is very much not appreciated! Even though Jatin is not allowed in the Dixit mansion, he apparently is in touch with Sonakshi as her "friend"... her "confidante" these days...😉

Dev might have lost his role in Sonakshi's life, but Sonakshi has not lost her effect on Dev. Thats how Dev is. For Dev, Sonakshi is the only person he has ever loved and will ever love. For him the word "love" is synonymous to Sona and therefore he is still very possessive about her. Unfortunately, he cannot openly express his possessiveness.. I am sure he knows fully well that Sonakshi is a good mother. However, the only way to question her and Jatin was to bring the topic of Suhana...

Even though it was a sharp and hurting remark, what Sonakshi told Dev was true - that he needs to first clear up in his mind what his problem is - is it that Suhana is sick? or is it that Sonakshi is talking to Jatin? Sometimes, I feel Natasha should make a reentry and become Dev's good friend, so that Sonakshi can also express some "possessiveness"...🤔🤔 Dev never had a real friend other than Bunty and Sona 😒😢

And again, like always, a hurting remark by either of them was only followed by a quiet reflection of the past...Every time they think of the past, I feel so bad for them.. because they know their own mistakes and are almost on the verge of apologizing to each other, but stop themselves..😒😢

Not just these past memories..even their present togetherness makes us feel sad for them. Every time they look into each others eyes, the familiarity of the moment is so magical that its very hard to snap out of it into the reality of the moment. And the reality of the moment is that they don't mean anything to each other anymore. Its only for Suhana that they are playing this role 😏😊

I don't want to talk about GKB's wicked plans of projecting a wrong image of Sona. GKB was, is and should be treated as an inconsequential person. Why was Dev even listening to her? But thats the strength of GKB and Vicky - that they find the right opportunity when the other person is even slightly vulnerable and uses it to their favour! Even a strong person like Sonakshi had to fall prey to their trap! How horribly Vicky defined Sonakshi as "Dev's daughter's mother"?? 😡😡👊🏻👊🏻 Only he can talk like that!! And GKB is even capable of taking advantage of a child's emotion!! 😡😡

Golu is the apple in Dev's eyes today. Like Dev said to Asha, its because of Golu that Dev had been able to live these past seven years..And the two hold a special relationship that even the actual father is jealous of! Even when Dev was in the Bose house near his daughter, he only came to Golu's side when he needed a shoulder to lean on. And Golu understands even the deepest emotions of his BigCha and can read all the unsaid things from his Bigcha's eyes.. However, thanks to GKB, this little kid has started to look at Dev from a different angle. And Dev is obviously too caught up with Suhana that he could not do anything about it 😒😢

But Suhana is a very intelligent girl and so, I am banking on her to become alright soon and explain to Golu about his Bigcha's state...I cant wait for the day when the two little kids can sleep together to Dev's bedtime story! 😊

The week's finale was a complete twist with the entry of Khatri!!😲😲 Khatri is so fresh in our memory because he had troubled Ishwari with some secret that we were all so curious to find! The unfinished business of Khatri is here again to be finished once and for all. We must wait and watch for Sonakshi's role in this man's story!  However I could not understand why she called Jatin...

Who was really wrong this time? Me being a Dev fan, questioned Jatin's presence and argued that Sonakshi should not have called Jatin, because this is Dev's house and she should have first told Dev! But then when Dev found about Rounita's mother, he did not tell Sonakshi either and wanted to deal with it himself. Sonakshi is doing the same. And she is taking a "good friend's" help... why not Jatin..Jatin is a friend..When we need a friend, wont we call a friend? Dev is now none to Sonakshi, not even a friend, just Soha's father. And Dev and Sona are still doing the same thing. They care for each other in their own ways without feeling any need to tell the other person about it. Who is right and who is wrong is a question that cannot really be answered.

But after seven years, everyone sees a different side of the same person. What was wrong before may become right now! Like Asha said to Bijoy, Sonakshi is now in Dev's house not as his wife, but as "Soha's mother".. And Sonakshi does not have any expectations of the Dixit family members, nor do they have any expectations of her. Sonakshi might start seeing them, especially Ishwari in a completely different light. After all Ishwari is a single mother who has brought up not just one, but 4 kids. And that too without the support of money, or education or a family like the Bose family to lean on. However bad she may be to Sonakshi, who can deny the strength of this mother? With Khatri's entry who has a secret from Ishwari's past - now anything can happen to the relationship between Sonakshi and Ishwari. 😊😊

Some high points this week are:

  • Dev and Sonakshi's heartfelt discussions and acknowledgement of their failed relationship. The tears from their eyes were genuine..👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
  • Dev's helpless situation, because of which he had to stay away from his own daughter... Emotional scenes are a piece of cake for Shaheer and he plays his roles with such an adept skill! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏻👌🏻
  • The beautiful flashbacks.. that makes us want to go back and catch those episodes one more time...❤️😄😍
  • The bedtime stories and its effect on the kids.. These stories have now become a character in our story!! A dad who is hands on with kids, looks very good and Sonakshi, am sure is in love with the "dad" Dev. 👨‍👩‍👧
  • All the quick blames of Dev and Sonakshi on each other. Even though their words are very hurtful, they only bring their innermost sorrow.. Sometimes, I feel they should end their sentences with "mein aisi wali 'Ex' hoti tho"..when they realize that its going a little overboard 😒😢
  • Lastly, Khatri's entry!! Its probably the only TV show that will celebrate a villain's entry!!😎😎 I cannot wait for more Khatri next week 😄😄



4 comments:

  1. Brilliant write up. Who is right or who is wrong no one can say. Dev is right to the supporters of Dev and Sona has done nothing wrong according to her supporters. It's my earnest wish that this blame game stops and the bridge between the two breaks. The fandom will have some peace and quietude.
    Yes Khatri 's entry has indeed taken us by surprise. Let's see what his entry unfolds.
    Looking forward to the next week 's takes.

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  2. @saikripa thank you for coming back to read every week! really appreciate your support and kind words :) yes, am excited about next week!!

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  3. Hahaha read certain ppl's analysis on each epi..one is tired of dev dixit and other just bashes sonakshi lol
    This blog is one who in true sense isn't biased to Any one..wanted this from long time..very well written keep it up

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    1. Hi there!
      thanks for your compliments 😊
      Glad you liked it :)

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