Sunday, November 6, 2016

Week 36 - When Love is not above all

When Love is above all, forgiving is easy, forgetting is easier and keeping the faith and trust in fact becomes easiest! Its not at all possible that Love will be absent in anyone's life. The priorities might change as we face life's difficulties at different stages. Sometimes, Love is above all.. Sometimes it is not. Something else takes the place of Love and those are the times we feel lonely and sad. Sometimes, Love is present but is in disguise, that its so hard to even recognize it.. It doesn't always present itself as hugs and kisses and kind words. However, when you completely give all of you, to the person you love, then you start to trust that person so much that you can recognize love, even if its disguised and then forgiving, forgetting, keeping faith all becomes easy.

With that prelude lesson on Love, lets go on to talk about this week of Kuch Rang pyar ke aise bhi.


One of the highlights of this week was the matured relationship of Dev and Sona. For them, Love seems to be above all of their day to day problems and difficulties. The real demonstration of "Tu mujme mujse zyaada hain" was seen this week, from this couple's angle.


However, Love was almost absent in Neha-Ranveer's life. It was Self respect and HIS family minus Neha for Ranveer and comfortable living & getting away from Ranveer's family for Neha. These priorities have taken up so much of their life that there seems to be no room for Love to even peek and ego clouded their mind.


Dev and Sonakshi have undergone the pain of separation much before they got into their marriage..and probably because of that, they both know how much they mean to each other. When they both had no other choice and were forced accept their separation and move on, the power of their Love for each other came in the forefront above everything else. It was so profound, so strong, that even rock solid Ishwari had to give way for it to flow through..and for it to blossom and grow...


Neha and Ranveer probably haven't yet realized the power of their Love. They say that the importance of someone's presence can be realized only in their absence. They probably need this separation. But I am scared if this separation will become permanent..As Dev said, there was no fire in Ranveer.. Dev perfectly compared his own state in Sona's absence with Ranveer's current state. For the first time, I agree with the Abhodro avatar of Dev in this context. Ranveer seemed to totally lack that compassion for Neha.. Atleast she thought of him while having Golgappa..


It takes two to experience the beauty of Love. Dev and Sonakshi seemed to have mastered this art. 


As Dev was going through the trauma of "I need to fix my sister's life right now", Sonakshi stood by him all the time.. At times, she was a caring wife who gave him a warm hug and assured him that tomorrow will be a better day.. At times, she was a good friend and took him out for a coffee date in her sleek scooty and gently checked with him on the issue thats on everyone's mind at home.... Dev was no less either. He was protective of his wife, always admired and praised her inner and outer beauty, never ever showed his male ego, and always had time for her.  Dev has turned out to be a perfect husband that every girl will ever want! 

With Dev and Sona, I especially admire how they are able to genuinely cherish the beauty of their relationship amidst all the stress in their mind. I keep telling myself that Dev and Sonakshi are fictional only..My husband is no Dev and more importantly I am no Sonakshi either!! But, they are so adorable that its hard not to dream ourselves as one of them. 


After this week's DevAkshi moments, am sure every wife will want a husband who will 
wake her up so lovingly every morning. And, if at all he makes any mistakes in waking her up, he should allow her to sleep for 5 more minutes and wake her up again, in the cutest way ever possible! 

And every husband will need a wife who will make him smile even during life's toughest moments and will stand by him always!


There is this perfect couple Dev and Sona and then there is this imperfect couple Ranveer and Neha and I cant even begin to classify the third couple Eleena and Vicky!! What is wrong with Eleena? I know Love is blind and all that.. Still...How did Eleena miss the Ravan inside Vicky?? Well, my sincere hope is that she recognizes the real Ravan and saves herself from a disaster.

Amidst all the tension in the house, I honestly liked the idea of celebrating Diwali. Apart from the religious significance of our festivals, those are the times to reassure ourselves of new beginnings and that happy times are just ahead. Festivals are that time of the year when we can put aside all past bitter days, genuinely feel happy with what we have today and be hopeful of the future. The Dixit family deserved to be happy.

And, gifts have the power to make everyone happy... even Gareeb ki beti!!

Dev, the world's bestest brother, got the perfect gift for his darling sister, Neha - A talking doll that she always wanted...  Sometimes, I wonder if Ranveer knows the deeper details of Neha's childhood.. Because, if he knew, he might be able to see why Neha longs for "things" that may not be important for normal people..And I wish soon Dev gets the right temperament to sit down and talk to Ranveer about all these things. Or atleast Ishwari should get into the groove of the problems and solve it in her style. Talking might be easier for these two, because Ranveer always held Ishwari in high esteem and he was her favorite son-in-law. 


The son in law of Dixit home was in trouble, this Diwali. But, the son-in-law of the Bose family got some brownie points by sending gifts to them!!

All went well until Sonakshi burnt her feet. Every happy time, leaves a mark just as a token of remembrance :) This festival left a mark for Dev, Sona as well as  Ishwari. A hurt feet will probably heal soon. And even if it leaves a mark, Sonakshi and Dev may only cherish it, because, for them Love is above all. But for those that have expectations from Love, the mark leaves only bitterness in the heart.

Ishwari could have waited just a little longer for Dev to come or could have knocked their door and asked him about the temple.. or atleast sent Keechu bhaiya to call Dev (knocking on their door and disturbing their private time is not new!!!) . Of all these options, Ishwari resorted to going to the temple all alone with a long face. 

The poor son, Dev, wanted to genuinely go to the temple with his mother to fulfill the tradition they had formed over years..Ishwari not just disappointed him, but also confused him by talking about dividing his time between her and Sona!! Ishwari... Tumi ekdom impossible!

Caring for the person you love and feeling responsible for them are essential constituents of Love. But without the knowledge about the beloved person or the respect for him/her, Love deteriorates into either possessiveness or domination..The actual feeling of Love will not be predominant anymore. 

Neha felt that her care and Love for Ranveer will probably motivate him to improve his standard of living. But she failed to understand what Ranveer is basically made of. Eventually what she thought was Love, became "domination".. It was very sad to see Ranveer file a case against Neha in those grounds...

Dev's love for his sister was blinding his logical thinking. His Abhodro avatar was back in form and took away the job from the very honest Ranveer. 

I feel that although Ishwari went through lot of difficulties in bringing up her kids, she is right now, not being a good mother to either Neha or Dev. We all know that her possessiveness towards Dev is blinding her logical thinking as well. In Neha's case, she has failed to show the right path to her.. She must start thinking.."Agar, Sonakshi aisi bahu hothi..tho?" That will probably make her send Neha back to her husband as well as accept Sonakshi with all her goodness.

Well... Some colors of love are so..



2 comments:

  1. The portrayal of exact emotions through words sums up the whole week of KRPKAB.
    Enjoyed reading.

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